tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post170412244791423577..comments2023-05-04T23:39:38.320+10:00Comments on Bitter/Sweet: That Hurt More Than I ThoughtSummastarlethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10873371748864027299noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-23284004790625849922011-10-10T11:05:45.893+10:002011-10-10T11:05:45.893+10:00I agree with all the above... very hard to forget....I agree with all the above... very hard to forget... <br />But yay down to 96 now :-)Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12217333824738071212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-40122255591737244922011-10-09T12:18:40.515+10:002011-10-09T12:18:40.515+10:00I don't think it is a stupid post at all. I a...I don't think it is a stupid post at all. I am amazed at the times when the grief, envy, or anger bubbles out of me out of no where. IF is some complicated stuff.<br /><br />I've been really quite in blogland lately, figuring out this next chapter of prego after IF/RPL, but wanted to say thanks for the support. I don't know where I'd be without this community that understands.And so it goeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10531591379104188974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-75298801677996244452011-10-09T09:54:28.957+10:002011-10-09T09:54:28.957+10:00It is such a shock when that saddness/jealousy ari...It is such a shock when that saddness/jealousy arises like that isn't it? But you're right, pregnancy doesn't fix infertility and it doesn't wash away all the pain we've suffered already.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06987495797032184201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-20622514816362181502011-10-08T14:54:20.421+10:002011-10-08T14:54:20.421+10:00*hugs* I totally get you.*hugs* I totally get you.Marissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335092755332310967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-18300915543733466442011-10-08T13:39:38.351+10:002011-10-08T13:39:38.351+10:00Its not a silly post at all. One of my best friend...Its not a silly post at all. One of my best friends in Sydney is actually due the day before I was due and I have never posted about it on my blog as I dont want to seem jealous but its very hard especially when we go to Sydney to visit family and friends and I see her belly growing. I look down at my belly and think " my belly should be that big now" :( she is also having a girl - which was very hard for me, it was like a kick in the guts when I found out.. and I think its going to be extremely hard when she arrives in Feburary. Like you I will be happy and over the moon for her but at the same time I will be thinking where is my baby?! It totally sucks and I totally understand how you are feeling! Good for you for getting it off your chest. Chin up.. your little man will be here soon! xx♥ Cass & Shanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16179741062996107065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-45776460266692940542011-10-08T08:46:57.814+10:002011-10-08T08:46:57.814+10:00You words reflect how all of us feel... you're...You words reflect how all of us feel... you're so right in saying that "You don't go through TTC and IVF and miscarriage and just instantly forget once you become pregnant. It's part of who you are"... the pain of this journey is now twined in our being. Lovely to read your last post and hear that you've only got 99 days to go :)) Time will fly by and you'll have your little one safely in your arms soon xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-29511820324883896102011-10-08T05:03:34.436+10:002011-10-08T05:03:34.436+10:00Hun after the journey you've been through it&#...Hun after the journey you've been through it's always going to sting even if you are pregnant. You can't just shut those feelings off. On a positive in 98 days you'll be the one sending that text msg!!!babycrazykiwihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12188739797201825434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534989586275019459.post-35595690558893585562011-10-08T02:21:03.400+10:002011-10-08T02:21:03.400+10:00You shouldn't feel bad at all for posting this...You shouldn't feel bad at all for posting this, or for feeling the way that you do. It's hard all around, and adding miscarriage or early loss certainly makes it hit hard. I really struggled when both of my sisters became pregnant after I started treatments, and it was definitely hard when their babies arrived. I'm so glad you have your little one with you, but you shouldn't feel any guilt for still having pain over your loss. Thinking of you --Baby Hopeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12247685343284672194noreply@blogger.com